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XXXLove.com is a new dating site that is run by the same owners who own XXXMatch.comEroticAffairs.com, EroticLove.comXXXCupid.com, and SocialSex.com. XXXLove.com is actually the new site for XXXMatch. I'm not sure why they changed the name of the site but it's says so on their home page. The name has changed but has the rest of the site remained the same. The big question, is XXXLove a scam or a real dating site where you can meet real people? please read the review and uncover the truth before it's too late.


Quick Info

Upload photos: Yes
Upload videos: Yes
View webcams:  You can watch web cam models if you pay a per minute fee.
Online chat rooms: Yes, if you purchase a premium membership.
Sen Instant Messages: Yes if you upgrade and buy a full membership.
Free Membership: Yes
Send Emails: Yes, if you a premium member.
Real Dating Profiles: No
Worth Creating A Profile:  No
Amount of monthly visitors:
Price for full membership: $34.95 month
Overall rating:  1/10 

Read My Full Review Of XXXLove.com


  • InBox: Send and receive emails using their inbox (online email service) to contact other members of the site.
  • My Friends List: Quick access to see who is on your friends list.
  • Who Viewed My Profile: You can see who has viewed your profile.
  • Who Wants To Meet Me In Person: If people are interested in meeting you, the message will show up here.
  • XXX Theater: This section of the site give you access to 10,000 adult movies, dating tips, sex boosters (Viagra), erotic stories and a list of local swinger clubs in your area.
  • Member Videos: Watch amateur porn from members on the site.
  • Featured Members: You can see the hottest featured members here.
  • Chat: Get access to online chat rooms, message boards, as well as something called "Virtual Sex World".
  • My Latest Matches: Get quick access to girls located in your area with this feature.
  • Browse Profiles: Enables you to browse profiles, just like it says. Nothing more and nothing less.
  • Who's Online Now: Lists who is online now, in no order.
  • EroticLove Live: You can watch web cam models live buy purchasing time with them (it can be very expensive at $3.50 per minute).

Search Features

  • Gender: Search for females, males, couples.
  • Sexual Preference: You can search based on sexual preference, gay, straight and bisexual.
  • Age: You can search for women based on age.
  • Located Within: Can search for members located within a certain range from 5 miles to 100 miles away from you.
  • Marital Status: Find, single, divorced or even married women with this search function.
  • Circumcised: Find men who are circumcised or not.
  • Body Hair: Find men who are hairy or who have smooth bodies.
  • Body Type: Search for athletic men or women with this feature.
  • Ethnicity: Find women based on their ethnicity.
  • Language: Search for women based on the language they speak.
  • Hair Color: Find women according to the type of girls you like, brunettes, red heads, blondes etc...
  • Eye Color: Search based on eye color.
  • Smoking: If you like to smoke, then you can search for someone who smokes just like you do.
  • Drinking: Like to party and drink? Meet women who want to party and drink!
  • Photos: Search for people with photos (erotic photos incl.)
  • Screen Name:  Look for members based on what their screen name is.
  • New Members:  Search for the newest female or male members on the site.
  • Religion: Find people based on religion.
  • Language: Search for people based on the language they speak.
  • Most Popular: Search for the most popular women, men, lesbians and gay men.


XXXLove prices


Free: With a free membership you can check out the members area. You will not be able to contact women on the site by email. 


  • 12 month Membership: The 18 month membership works out to be $12.50 a month, it is automatically billed every 12 months in a one time payment of $149.99.
  • 3 month Membership: The 3 month membership works out to be $23.32  a month, it is automatically billed every 3 months in a one time payment of $69.95.
  • 1 month Membership: If you would like to pay monthly, the price is  $34.95 per month.


  • 3 Day Trial: The 3 day trial membership is $1.95, it is automatically billed every 6 months in a one time payment of $99.95.
  • 3 month Membership: The 3 month membership works out to be $19.98 a month, it is automatically billed every 3 months in a one time payment of $59.95.
  • 1 month Membership: If you would like to pay monthly, the price is $29.95 per month.

**Note: Like all dating sites, your monthly membership will automatically renew every month unless you cancel it.

My Opinion

Unfortunately just like XXXMatch.com, XXXLove.com uses something called automated bots (software applications that send out automated emails and instant messages) to communicate with male members who have a free basic account on XXX Love. These bots are called "Online Emissaries"

Why Do They Use Bots?

The reason certain dating sites such as XXXLove uses bots that send emails to people is because when you receive an email and you are a free members you cannot email the girl back without upgrading and buying a $29.95 monthly membership.

So how it works is this. You sign up on XXXLove.com as a free member, there after you starting receiving emails from fake local women (bots) that have "viewed your profile",  "want to meet you" and so on. But, when you try to respond to the emails from the bots you are sent to the upgrade page to buy a $29.95 monthly membership before you can respond to the emails you have received. The problem is that these bots of course are not real women but are designed to look as if they are real women.

And the end result is if you do upgrade all those emails from "local women" will stop and you will never communicate with any of the "women" who emailed you in the first pace because they are not real people they are bots that XXXLove calls "Online Emissaries".

XXXLove Terms

"An Online Emissary™ may be a real person, such as another xxxlove.com Member, a digital actor, an avatar or a synthespian (e.g. a computer generated "person" or "character"). Online Emissaries may be employed by xxxlove.com or a third party...

By agreeing to these Terms and Conditions or by otherwise becoming a Member of xxxlove.com, You hereby authorize, xxxlove.com to use or allow, in its sole discretion, one or more Online Emissaries to communicate with you via email, an instant messenger program..."

Read the rest of the terms and conditions here in section 14. 

After reading that do you think you can actually meet real women on XXXLove? Personally I think the chances of meeting real women on XXX Love are slim to none. I suggest you stick with HONEST and REAL sites, such as the sites below that have great features such as free webcams (chat with real women live) and free chat rooms (see real women on webcam if they have one).

Recommended Sites With Free Chat Rooms & Web Cams:

These three dating sites listed below will enable you to view free webcams you also get access to online free chat rooms.

  1. AdultFriendFinder  (the largest adult site has free webcam and free chat rooms.)
  2. Horny Wife Site  (for married men and women, & also has free chat rooms and free webcam viewing)
  3. Passion  (for single men and women, has webcam viewing and free chat room as well.)
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XXXLove.com Review - Another Scam Or A Legit Dating Site?, 1.3 out of 10 based on 3 ratings

4 Responses to “XXXLove.com Review – Another Scam Or A Legit Dating Site?”

  1. mark says:

    I had a fully paid gold membership with this website
    For 3 months. They guaranteed that I would meet local
    Women in person. My membership had expired and I did
    not meet any women at all. That website should be taken down.
    Its just a bunch of lies just to get your money. I wonder if they
    Will give me a refund or atleast some free time?

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  2. jason says:

    This site is terrible. I wish I would have read your reviews beforehand. I definitely got like three of those "Online Emissaries". That is what caused me to go for the gold membership. I even remember thinking that it was trick. Should of went with my gut feeling. FUCCCKKKKK lol. How do I cancel the subscription so that no other charges occurr for this lame ass website?

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  3. John says:

    I have heard a lot of thngs said about XXXlove being a scam site and full of bots, but I had to try anyway.  I purchased a trial membership and met a woman and hooked up the next day.  I don't know if this was just sheer luck, but I had better success on this site than I did many others.

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